1. Lead by example. Isn’t this how all role models are born? They blaze a trail, catch our attention, and consequently motivate and empower us to work toward our own goals and dreams?
2. Offer a helping hand. If you see a woman struggling, don’t sit back and snicker (all the while silently thanking God or whomever that it isn’t you); offer to help her.
3. Share what works for you. On that note, if you see a woman really struggling – and you’ve been in the situation before yourself – share what worked or works for you.
4. Think of your family. Don’t say or do anything to another woman you wouldn’t say or do to your mother, sister, grandma, cousin, aunt, or any other female family member in the same situation (or what you wouldn’t want anyone else doing or saying to them).
5. Be the voice of reason. If you’re on the receiving end of a rant about a particular woman, don’t fuel the fire by adding your own complaints or insults. On that note, don’t start any of your own fires. If you have a problem with a particular woman, address it with her. By abstaining from gossiping or trash-talking behind someone’s back, you might even inspire others to do the same.
6. Offer encouragement. If your sister or girlfriend or any other woman you know shares dreams of going back to school, leaving an abusive relationship, starting a business, picking up a new hobby –anything for which she might benefit from some encouragement – provide that encouragement. You never know when your encouraging words are the only ones she’ll hear.
7. Volunteer or donate. Whether it’s a local women’s shelter or an international organization that teaches women how to start businesses, consider volunteering your time or donating funds to help these programs work. You might even meet a new friend along the way.
Alicia Sparks
Psychentral.com
